Breaking the code

flagchild06 · Post by **flagchild06** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 9:28 pm

Okay so some guys have told me that they think it's kind of nice when a girl admits that you like them. So I did, because I have a big mouth and I'm a freak. So what does it mean when they don't say anything back?!?!?!?!?

Do you know how much of my dignity and pride and guts I had to scrounge up to do that? Alot! It was im front of my drum major and a bunch of the guys friends! I kind of yelled it at him in a conversation... As I may have stated somewhere else on the site, that whole ladylike thing isn't the boat I float.

IsnipeWithAknife · Post by **IsnipeWithAknife** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 10:08 pm

maybe they are confused (as in not knowing what to say) or shy. if they dont say anything at least u know that person doesnt dislike you.

i wouldnt go up to someone and tell em i'd just be friendlier and do nicer things giving that person more priority, (dropping hints) so they can have a chance to find some feelings for me without having to struggle with somthing that came out of no where (in their opinion) and trying to come up with somthing to say when there are no experiences for that person to derive feelings for.

flagchild06 · Post by **flagchild06** » Thu Sep 04, 2003 11:18 pm

I didn't randomly yell at him, we were having a conversation from far away and it was a loud conversation. That's what I meant by yelling. Just thought I'd clear that up.

formermarcher · Post by **formermarcher** » Fri Sep 05, 2003 10:04 am

Perhaps he didn't want to say anything because he was surronded by friends.