Guy Help: The Modern Gentleman

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 8:18 pm

For Men and Women:

This is all according to a book I have "The Modern Gentleman", a guide to essential manners, savvy, and vice. If anyone has any specific questions please feel free to PM me I'll answer anything and keep it confidential:

This is what it entails: Out & About, Entertaining, Wooing, Gentlemanly Knowledge, Appearance & Style, Domesticity, Venerable Vices, Alcohol, Tobacco, & Fireworks, Between the Sheets, Trouble, Travel, Public Relations, Beyond Bachelorhood....

A few quick examples: Eating Out, Tipping, Group Dynamics, Flirtation, Exes & Ohs, Long-Distance Runaround, Literature, Classical Music, Jazz, Yoga, Man Cycle, Profanity & Vulgarity, Fashion, Hygiene & Habits, Toiletiquette, Spitting,Hiccoughing & Other Expulsions, Leaves of Grass, Golf, Gaming, Prophyletiquette, XXX, To the Power of 3, Sticky Situations & Solutions, Conversational Gaffes, Lies, Old Flames, Asking Directions, E-Mail, Correspondence, The Rock, Proposals, Vows, Good Husband.

altohack · Post by **altohack** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 9:06 pm

Isn't there a book called the Modern Lady too?

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sat Nov 29, 2003 9:32 pm

I think so I'm not sure. I got this in Capitola in Santa Cruz. There probably is. I bet it's good too.

TMRsaxyDM · Post by **TMRsaxyDM** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 10:11 am

i dont get the point.. lol

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 10:16 am

The latest topics have gone no where. Women are just speaking their minds. This gives guys and women a chance to ask a specific question and it will get answered. Do you see anything that interests you? Ask away. I'll tell you what the book says and we'll go from there. A lot of you guys ask the same questions. One question will start it and then everyone else will understand. If you're too shy about the question, PM me. Otherwise just ask away!

jrichmond68 · Post by **jrichmond68** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 2:17 pm

what does it say about age differences? like, how much older can the guy be vs the girl?

TMRsaxyDM · Post by **TMRsaxyDM** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 2:32 pm

so you are the middle man between us and the book?

jrichmond68 · Post by **jrichmond68** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 2:41 pm

i think she's the "middle woman"...but more to the point; ANSWER MY QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111111111

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 3:20 pm

Book didn't say so this is my opinion: Most men think that older women are out of their league since women mature much faster. If you want an older woman, watch out for a husband, older son your age, and grandson your age. The sky is the limit and if you are in love then nothing should stop you. If she is over 18 and you are under, be careful. Don't go off and have sex with your teacher and get her pregnant.....

jrichmond68 · Post by **jrichmond68** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 3:22 pm

what about younger women?

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 4:06 pm

I would say that puberty is the limit. Depending on how old you are. If you are a 13 year old boy and you want to date a 11 or 12 year old girl, that would be okay....but if you are 15-16 and she's 12, that's not good. I would stick to a girl with pubic hair.... since you're 17 I would say 14 should be your limit...it's totally up to you.

BariSx_G · Post by **BariSx_G** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 4:10 pm

I seriously doubt a guy would need a book to shape him into a gentleman. It's all just a matter of maturity and common sense.

jrichmond68 · Post by **jrichmond68** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 4:14 pm

ILL~BE~BACH wrote:I would say that puberty is the limit. Depending on how old you are. If you are a 13 year old boy and you want to date a 11 or 12 year old girl, that would be okay....but if you are 15-16 and she's 12, that's not good. I would stick to a girl with pubic hair.... since you're 17 I would say 14 should be your limit...it's totally up to you.

thank you for that grossly graphic description.

shorts · Post by **shorts** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 6:32 pm

i don't think there's like a square rule for age limit, but that's my opinion. i think it all depends on the people.

ILL~BE~BACH · Post by **ILL~BE~BACH** » Sun Nov 30, 2003 6:38 pm

That's what I've already said...shorts....It depends on the love between you and your own thoughts and perceptions about it. Thanks.

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Guy Help: The Modern Gentleman

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The Point

Age Difference

Too Young?

Re: Too Young?

Exactly