What do you look for in a person of the opposite sex?

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Post by Hostrauser » Thu Nov 21, 2002 6:48 pm

What do I look for in women... hmmm... In no particular order...

REQUIRED
~ Moderately Intelligent
~ Good sense of humor
~ Pretty or Cute face

PREFERRED
~ Tall (5'8" - 6'+)
~ Curvy (no Kate Moss stick figures)
~ Musically Inclined
~ Independent
~ Curvy (most of my past g/f's have been rather... um... top-heavy) :D
~ Self-Assured
~ Smart (i.e., more than just moderately intelligent)
~ Nice skin
~ Curvy (I think you get the idea) :wink:

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Post by MsNikki » Thu Nov 21, 2002 7:40 pm

Haha, gee Phantom. Do you like your ladies with curves? I've come to like my curves because of you. Not to mention my best 'asset' :lol:
Ah geez, am I really gonna do this? I guess so ...

- Sense of Humor (uptight people drive me crazy .. in a bad way)
- Same height or taller (no Tom & Nicole's, please)
- Smart (in one area or another)
- Isn't intimidated by me (I'm rather blunt at times) :maul:
- Likes kids
- Facial hair is a plus (but not a requirement)
- Doesn't avoid confrontation :jedi:
- Trustworthy (Don't think I won't find out ...)
- And if he can cook a mean turkey or tri-tip, it's on! :wink:

Errr ... now that I read that I realize that I just described someone I know. Oh well, it's all good.
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Post by westlakewoodwindcaptain » Thu Nov 21, 2002 7:54 pm

If anyone cares to hear-

Someone who will talk
NOT A SLUT!!!
Is friendly and understanding
Just an all-around great person

I never had much luck with girls...
Cam close once, but she fell in love with another.
The tragedy, the tragedy :frustrated:

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Post by MsNikki » Thu Nov 21, 2002 10:35 pm

:shock: I'm starting to notice this "Not A Slut" trend.
So tell me (and this isn't directed at you guys, but just to people in general), why is it that a girl is referred to as a 'slut' if she's with a lot of guys ... but if a guy is with a lot of girls, it's a great thing. I know plenty of guys who are darn proud to be a 'man slut.'

Maybe I should have added .. not a man-slut, or @$$ on my list. :twisted:
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Post by Shrekinet » Thu Nov 21, 2002 11:01 pm

i think this is because if a girl has been with lots of guys then she is consider 'easy' get. i guess guys like the challenge and don't want someone that neone else in the room can go out with. am i right? (this is just my assumption)
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Post by DJ-PsiLon » Thu Nov 21, 2002 11:09 pm

I just want a self-respecting girl that doesn't think being "independent" means she could wear as little clothes as she wants. I've noticed that there are a lot of girls that act like Ophelias from Hamlet. It's not an easiness factor but more along the lines that she doesn't have to use sexuality to impress me.

Girls don't need to dress skanky to get noticed. The only place I can tolerate something like that is at a club. But it doesn't help either that Cristina gAguilera and Britney are seen as role models for young ladies. Oh my I haven't seen as many crouch shots in Cristina's Dirrty video.

The girl I just broke up with is a great example of what I'm looking for. She's self-respecting, responsible and in a sense innocent.
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Post by nizmo » Thu Nov 21, 2002 11:23 pm

i'm a man-whore.


haha not.

i dunno but i think its deeply rooted in our society. guys can have a lot of girls and be called a pimp. but when girls have a lot of guys they're sluts. its the way it is *shrug*

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Post by Hostrauser » Fri Nov 22, 2002 1:42 am

Nikki, you've got great curves, and you know it. :kiss:

SLUT n.
1. A term of jealousy for a person who gets more sex than you do. :shock: :lol: :wink:

I don't care what a woman's done in her past, that's her business. If people think she's a slut... well, since when have I ever cared what other people think? As long as she is faithful to me, I could care less how many guys she's been with.

I've been quite the man-whore this year, and proud of it. In fact, one of the reasons I decided to go to the Mt. Carmel competition is because I have a female friend who lives in San Diego. We had a very nice weekend.

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Post by westlakewoodwindcaptain » Fri Nov 22, 2002 7:39 am

It sounds like us guys want nice girls, not slutty or anything of the such.

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Post by SoCalSpinN » Fri Nov 22, 2002 8:38 am

westlakewoodwindcaptain wrote:It sounds like us guys want nice girls, not slutty or anything of the such.
Yea...and I think that it's not just that a girl doesn't sleep around. I hate the stereotypical view that all guys want is sex.

Sex, sex, sex.

Granted, an active sex-life is healthy, it doesn't sustain a meaningful relationship, let alone grant meaning to a relationship

O well, that's my take, its 8:40 and I need to get to class.
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Post by MsNikki » Fri Nov 22, 2002 10:27 am

I know of many 'nice' girls who would also be called 'sluts' because they've been with more than one guy. I also know plenty of girls who aren't 'sluts', but aren't all that nice. Either you want a girl who is nice, or a girl who isn't a slut. Which is it?

Haha, look at that! Guys who are calling themselves man-whores and darn proud. Okay, so I think it's funny. But it's still frustrating. :frustrated:

The stereotypical view that all guy's want is sex? It's not *all* they want, but it's up in the top ... oh, two?? :P Every guy friend I have is looking to get some from someone. That's just how it is. Look at Phantom, he's having a grand time. :wink:
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Post by DJ-PsiLon » Fri Nov 22, 2002 10:55 am

MsNikki wrote:I know of many 'nice' girls who would also be called 'sluts' because they've been with more than one guy. I also know plenty of girls who aren't 'sluts', but aren't all that nice. Either you want a girl who is nice, or a girl who isn't a slut. Which is it?

Haha, look at that! Guys who are calling themselves man-whores and darn proud. Okay, so I think it's funny. But it's still frustrating. :frustrated:

The stereotypical view that all guy's want is sex? It's not *all* they want, but it's up in the top ... oh, two?? :P Every guy friend I have is looking to get some from someone. That's just how it is. Look at Phantom, he's having a grand time. :wink:
In my last relationship I didn't want sex from her.

On a side note I kinda feel weird talking about all this amongst a band forum filled with minors.
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Post by DJ-PsiLon » Fri Nov 22, 2002 10:56 am

Oh yeah I forgot to mention.

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Post by SoCalSpinN » Fri Nov 22, 2002 12:03 pm

no problem yo :D
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Post by westlakewoodwindcaptain » Fri Nov 22, 2002 1:56 pm

MsNikki wrote:I know of many 'nice' girls who would also be called 'sluts' because they've been with more than one guy. I also know plenty of girls who aren't 'sluts', but aren't all that nice. Either you want a girl who is nice, or a girl who isn't a slut. Which is it?

Haha, look at that! Guys who are calling themselves man-whores and darn proud. Okay, so I think it's funny. But it's still frustrating. :frustrated:

The stereotypical view that all guy's want is sex? It's not *all* they want, but it's up in the top ... oh, two?? :P Every guy friend I have is looking to get some from someone. That's just how it is. Look at Phantom, he's having a grand time. :wink:
Top two? If that is all a guy wants as his top two things, then he doesn't really love her.
Top 3 is okay. 8-)
Not top 2.
Thats just me though.

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