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Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Fri Nov 27, 2009 8:48 am
by Raiderette Cheyenne
In my guard we have our F.C. whos beeen having isses with some of the girls on flag line, and one of the girls on weapons line. She's an amazing performer, and a senior. She's also amazing with weapons. The girls she's been having issues with are a junior, who also has done weapons, and a freshman on flag line. The question is should we keep the F.C. and let her do her last season, and use the freshman as an alternate? I'd appreciate some feedback...

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Fri Nov 27, 2009 3:24 pm
by twinmomma
Can you be more specific as to what the issues are? It's hard to provide guidance without knowing more detail.

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 8:15 pm
by santana09
Well you should let the F.C. do it cause its her last year...

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 8:38 pm
by twinmomma
Without more details, for me the issue in who performs is a non-issue, because in my guard everyone performed. Whatever "issues" existed had to be worked out, even if we had to sit down and talk it completely through. Many times high school kids have issues with each other one day and the next everyone's fine.

So my initial advice? Get everyone in the same room and have an open discussion. Nothing good ever comes from feeding into the issues.

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sun Nov 29, 2009 3:20 pm
by agentsquishypenguin
As captain myself, i say keep the F.C. But, more information would be nice

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 10:24 pm
by Raiderette Cheyenne
Physical fights, arguments, and open hostility.

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 12:22 pm
by agentsquishypenguin
Raiderette Cheyenne wrote:Physical fights, arguments, and open hostility.
You need to sit your guard down and tell them that it is not good to fight, and that if it contiues, that consequences will happen. if consequences dont work, shut down the guard for the season.

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sat Dec 05, 2009 10:30 pm
by twinmomma
Physical fights need to be referred to the Administrator at the school in charge of discipline, and ANYONE involved in the fight should be removed from the team.

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 9:51 am
by HTD
I agreed with Twinmoma. Physical fights need to be referred to the Administrator at the school in charge of discipline, and ANYONE involved in the fight should be removed/disciplined from the team. This should be in the handbook that everyone signed before participating.
All team members must get along well; else your team will achieve nothing good in a long run. I would say a good friendships atmosphere is a key for success. After all a good memory is what it counts most, not just the medals

Re: Issues with former Captain and flag line girls...

Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 4:18 pm
by Raiderette Cheyenne
Thanks!